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Icebreakers

For a table that has not warmed up yet · all 24 cards, the whole deck

• What’s the best compliment you’ve ever received?
• What did you want to be at age seven?
• DoShow the group your most-used emoji.
• What’s a small win from this week?
• What song is stuck in your head right now?
• What’s something you changed your mind about recently?
• DoTeach everyone a word in a language you know.
• Who in this room should you text more often?
• What food could you happily eat every single day?
• DoDo your best impression of an animal — let everyone guess which one.
• If you could instantly master any skill, what would it be?
• What’s the most beautiful place you’ve ever been?
• Finish this: My comfort movie or show is…
• DoGive a genuine compliment to the person on your left.
• What’s a small thing that always makes you smile?
• If you could share a meal with anyone, living or not, who would it be?
• DoShow the group the last photo you took on your phone.
• What hobby would you dive into if time and money were no object?
• Finish this: I’m surprisingly good at…
• What’s the best trip or adventure you’ve ever taken?
• What’s a small habit that’s made your life better?
• What do you admire about someone here that you rarely say out loud?
• If today had a theme song, what would it be?
• Before you go, tell someone here one thing you’re glad you learned about them today.

Deep Talk with (Almost) Strangers

The stretch between acquaintance and actual friend · the first 5 of 99

• L1What was your honest first impression of me?
• L1What do people usually get wrong about you at first?
• L2When did you last feel truly understood?
• L2What part of yourself are you still learning to accept?
• DoTell me one thing you’ve noticed about me in the last five minutes.

Closer — for two

Everyday intimacy and repair · the first 5 of 99

• L1What did you think the first time you saw me?
• L2When do you feel most loved by me?
• L2What’s a dream you haven’t told me yet?
• DoWithout words, show me how you felt about today.
• L3What are you a little afraid to ask me?

First Three Dates

Low-pressure early dating · the first 5 of 50

• LightWhat’s something you could talk about for an hour without getting bored?
• LightWhat’s a small thing that instantly makes you trust someone?
• CuriousWhat were you like at sixteen?
• DoOrder for each other — you pick something you think the other would love.
• CuriousWhat’s a green flag you’ve learned to look for?

The Miles Between

For love across the distance · the first 5 of 60

• L1What’s something small from your day you wish I’d seen?
• L2What does “missing someone” feel like in your body?
• DoSend me a photo of what you can see right now — no filter.
• L1What’s the first thing you want to do when we’re in the same room?
• L3What are you building toward in this distance?

Sand & Sage

Daily solo reflection · the first 5 of 50

• NoticeWhat does your body need that your mind keeps overriding?
• ReleaseWhat can you let stay unfinished today?
• DoName three things you can hear right now.
• ReleaseWhat are you carrying that was never yours to hold?
• IntendWhere are you forcing what wants to flow?

Loud — for the group

Playful, second-round energy · the first 5 of 40

• WarmWhat’s a tiny thing that makes you irrationally happy?
• WarmWho here would survive longest in a horror movie, and why?
• DoDo an impression of someone here until we guess who.
• SpicyWhat hill will you absolutely die on?
• SpicyIf your life had a laugh track, when would it play?

Family Table

Questions and activities, all ages · the first 5 of 60

• StoriesWhat’s a family story that gets better every time it’s told?
• DoEveryone do their best impression of someone at this table — kindly.
• StoriesWhat’s something you learned this year that surprised you?
• DoIf our family had a motto, what should it be? Vote together.
• GratitudeWhat’s a tradition you’d want to keep forever?

After the Storm

Gentle post-breakup reflection · the first 5 of 40

• L1What did this relationship teach you about what you need?
• L1What’s one thing you’re proud of in how you handled it?
• DoWrite a sentence to your future self for the next hard day. Keep it.
• L2What did you make mean about yourself that simply isn’t true?
• L3What are you ready to forgive — yourself or them?

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